When we are forced to defer to someone who has manipulated us into confusion, thrown us off balance, shown us up, we suddenly feel deflated.
In a balanced relationship, energy and is given back and forth, and grows — uplifting both people into their highest creativity. I think […]Relationships…When they are healthy and balanced, they can be life-giving and energizing. Stay connected and do not use another “Control Drama.” Name the game by authentically expressing exactly how you are feeling, “Every time I’m around you, I feel criticized.” This will immediately collapse the manipulation as the Interrogator has to move toward authenticity and deal with your feelings.The first response you will probably hear is that you are wrong. This is why recognising and naming the drama can be vital when ‘interrupting’ this draining and destructive process.If your organisation has a forward thinking leadership agenda and is interested in learning more about my unique approach when developing charisma, please join me as my guest on 28th November 2016. Yet the East maintains that our normal energy levels are weak and flat until we open up to the absolute energies available in the universe. Here’s my overview of the teachings. In James Redfield’s book, The Celestine Prophecy he introduces four different Control Dramas that inspired me to understand more about how people unconsciously seek to control energy by playing out their different ‘dramas’. We chose our strategy based on the strategy—or control drama–each of our parents had.
One of the most important teachings I learned from this wonderful book, and still use today, is how to determine and recognise the subtle energy manipulations that people use to draw most of us into their dramas. This includes beliefs about what an individual thinks other people are like, and how to win inEveryone has a unique set of assumptions and style of interaction in this regard, which I have called control dramas. This is […]
And if others follow your example and expose the manipulation at other times, the person will, hopefully, get it then. First, and foremost, you have to learn how to connect with source energy on your own if you wish to resolve your control drama. The issue quickly becomes: Who is going to control this accumulated energy?
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Subtle criticizing forces the other person to lose confidence, and begin to look at themselves through the eyes of the Interrogator, and so, giving them power and energy.Manipulative comments by an Interrogator could be about appearance: “Don’t you feel a bit under-dressed at this occasion.” Or behavior: “I can’t believe you said that.” Or intelligence: “You really aren’t smart enough to compete in that job.” It could be any manner of criticism. It can be seen that […]The Community Radio Show 2/23/15 “Workplace Relationships” We are all learning to benefit from our Spiritual Connection, which means we can “Solve our Problems and Reach our Dreams” in a near miraculous manner! How do you transcend this Interrogator game and bring the sharing of the joined mind into balance?Do not shout, or run away. More aggressive personality is the Interrogator “Control Drama.” You know when you run into this style of manipulation because you suddenly feel criticized, and begin to monitor your actions so that you feel less vulnerable.
Getting back into the flow is as easy as staying […]As Autumn and I were discussing her article, Letting Go of Anger in Relationships, we realized how much it resonated with my own relationship. They go on and on. Control dramas - Celestine Prophecy control drama types - Group 1 : 0, 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, 70, 80, 90, 100 Group 2 : Aloof, Interrogator, Poor Me/ Victim, Intimidator Control Dramas. Some people do this by playing the drama of I have a friend I have known for years who has been through years of hardship because of becoming involved with strong, controlling and abusive men.
People seek to control others. In this way, we can take the steps to transcend and interpret them on a much deeper level, both spiritually and psychologically. A supportive relationship, founded in love, whether it is romantic or friendship based, can offer an invigorating level of companionship and life-long support. This level of direct honesty interrupts the energetic pattern and consequently shakes up the energy between us both. And our natural tendency is to try to win energy back from the dominator, usually by any means necessary.This process of psychological domination can be observed everywhere, and it is the underlying source of all irrational conflict in the human world, from the level of individuals and families all the way to cultures and nations. This leads to some nasty interactions. We all have a control drama (which is elegantly described in The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield).
They go on and on. The Celestine Prophecy argues that resolving the control dramas can be done in a few ways. We now know that to end these unconscious attempts to gain energyHere I am referring to a different type of catharsis – one that the mystics have pointed to throughout history and one that we are rapidly hearing more about.